We might still be in the midst of the summer holidays, but it’ll be no time at all before the kids return to school and realistically the serious planning might have already begun.
Whatever their age, children will always be reliant on their parents while growing up and teamwork is required to make a success of their education, especially if the parents are no longer together. Here are some tips to avoid the issues having a long-lasting impact:
It can feel sometimes like changes to a family, especially through separation, is something those involved might want to keep to themselves. But if you aren’t keeping the school updated of how your child’s circumstances are changing, it could have a negative impact on their education.
Schools are no strangers to estranged partners co-parenting. Staff have often undertaken training to understand these situations and how to best support the child, both in the immediacy of a separation and in the long-term. In the event that the separation is due to either parent’s behaviour, they will also be able to keep an eye out for any warning signs in relation around safety.
Planning ahead is more than just getting jobs done in advance and a parenting plan can often help provide structure that prevents miscommunication or disorganisation between parents.
A parenting plan is a written agreement worked out between parents, whether together or separated, and covers a range of practical issues as well as identifying and sharing out responsibilities. Whilst not legally binding, they can help both parents to know what’s expected of them and acts as a valuable reference in the event of any disputes.
As well as the more everyday matters such as where the children stay, there are a range of areas that a parenting plan would cover that impact school life. These include:
The Education Act 1996 lays the responsibility education with both parents, even if they are no longer together, and it’s best for this to be resolved amicably. Moving or changing a child’s school is something that has to be a joint decision. Where there is a dispute between the parents on the matter, the courts can resolve this with a focus on what is best for the child.
Even if a relationship has ended amicably, communication can always break down and sometimes parents will want to avoid each other altogether. Regardless of whether this is the case, it’s important that they are able to contact each other and still remain in touch, even if just in relation to their children.
For those wanting help in managing this communication, there are a range of co-parenting apps to help manage these tricky communication issues for separated parents. These help parents discuss all child-related matters by keeping all correspondence saved in one place and help reduce the likelihood of correspondence becoming unamicable.
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